Achay Kapray Pehnna Kibr Hai?

Speaker: Mugheerah Luqman  

Sayyidina Abdullah bin Mas‘ood (Radiyallahu Anhu) farmate hain ke Allah ke Rasool ﷺ ne irshad farmaya:

“La yadkhulul jannata man kana fi qalbihi mithqalu dharratin min kibr.”

(Sahih Muslim)

Tarjuma (Roman Urdu):

Woh shakhs Jannat mein dakhil nahi hoga, jiske dil mein zarra barabar bhi kibr (arrogance) hoga.

Yani agar kisi insaan ke dil mein bohat hi choti si bhi takabbur ki feeling maujood hai, toh jab tak woh us se paak nahi hota, Jannat mein dakhla mushkil ho jata hai.

Kapray aur Jootay: Kya Yeh Kibr Hai?

Is par ek Sahabi ne arz kiya:

“Innar-rajula yuhibbu an yakuna thawbuhu hasanan wa na‘luhu hasanatan.”

Yani:

Insaan yeh pasand karta hai ke uske kapray ache hon aur uske jootay bhi ache hon.

Yeh sawal bohot aham hai, kyunki hum mein se aksar log apni dressing, appearance aur outfit ke baare mein concerned hote hain.

Toh sawal yeh paida hota hai:

Kya achay kapray pehnna kibr hai?

Kya apni appearance ka khayal rakhna arrogance ke zumeray mein aata hai?

Allah ke Rasool ﷺ ka Jawab

Allah ke Rasool ﷺ ne is par wazeh jawab diya aur farmaya:

“Innallaha jameelun yuhibbul jamaal.”

Matlab:

Allah Ta‘ala khud khubsurat hain aur khubsurti ko pasand karte hain.

Is se yeh baat clear hoti hai ke:

- Achay kapray pehnna

- Saaf suthra aur presentable rehna

- Apni appearance ka khayal rakhna

Yeh sab kibr nahi hai aur Islam mein jaiz hai.

Phir Kibr Hai Kya? (Definition of Arrogance)

Allah ke Rasool ﷺ ne kibr ki wazeh definition bayan farmayi:

“Al-kibru batrul haqqi wa ghamtun-naas.”

Yani kibr do cheezon ka naam hai:

1) Batrul Haqq – Haq ko jhutlana

Jab haq wazeh ho jaye, daleel samne aa jaye, lekin phir bhi insaan sirf apni zid, ana ya ego ki wajah se haq qabool na kare.

Sirf is liye ke:

- “Main ghalat kaise ho sakta hoon?”

- “Mujhe apni baat se peeche hatna padega.”

Yeh rawaiya arrogance hai.

2) Ghamtun-Naas – Logon ko haqeer samajhna

Yani doosron ko:

- Kamtar samajhna

- Neecha samajhna

- Apne se inferior samajhna

Agar koi shakhs achay kapray is liye pehnta hai ke woh doosron ko kamtar samjhe,

toh yeh kibr hai.

Lekin agar:

- Aap achay kapray pehente hain

- Doosron ke liye dil mein koi takabbur nahi

- Sab ko izzat dete hain

Toh yeh na haram hai aur na hi arrogance.

Khulasa (Conclusion)

- Achay kapray pehnna kibr nahi

- Khubsurti pasand karna Islam mein jaiz hai

- Kibr asal mein dil ka marz hai

- Haq ko na maanna aur logon ko haqeer samajhna hi asli arrogance hai

Allah Ta‘ala humein kibr se bachaye aur tawazu ikhtiyar karne ki taufeeq ata farmaye.

Aameen.