Taalaaba

 Sabse pehle yeh sawaal apne aap se karo: Kya hum apne aap ko Allah ki mohabbat ki taraf badha rahe hain? Yeh sawaal sirf zabaani nahi, balki dil ki gahraiyon se poochha jaana chahiye. Kyun ke duniya ki fitrat hi yahi hai  woh kabhi bhi aapko Khuda ki mohabbat ki taraf jaane nahi degi. Yeh uska kaam nahi, balki yeh uski mukhalafat hai. Isliye Allah Azzawajal ne ek laakh chobees hazaar paighambaron ko is zameen par bheja. Unka maqsad sirf aur sirf yahi tha ke makhlooq apne Rab ki taraf palte, usse pehchane, aur usse chahne lage. Doosri taraf, duniya ka poora nizaam ek mukhalif simt mein chal raha hai. Iska kaam hai ke insaan apne Rab se ghafil ho jaye, door ho jaye, aur apni zindagi mein itna kho jaye ke Khuda ki yaad tak na aaye. Aur aaj ka dour? Woh aur bhi zyada peechida hai. Aaj aapko duniya mein har cheez nazar aati hai  deen bhi, deendar bhi. Lekin asli sawaal yeh hai ke yeh log aapko le kahan rahe hain? Khuda ki taraf, ya apni taraf? Kyun ke bohat se log deen ka lib...

What a profound blessing it is to be guided at such a young age. Many assume that being guided means walking a path free from mistakes, a journey marked by perfection at every step. But this understanding misses the deeper truth. Being guided doesn't mean you won't make any mistakes. It doesn't mean you're going to be perfect. Rather, being guided means your heart will instinctively seek repentance every time you stumble. Your soul will turn back to Allah, again and again, with sincerity and hope. Guidance is a form of divine mercy that we only truly understand through the passage of time. When guidance arrives in youth, Allah doesn't just save you from heartbreak. He saves you from years of confusion, from paths of uncertainty that you didn't even know you were heading toward. He redirects your steps before you lose yourself in the darkness of doubt and misdirection. Being guided at a young age doesn't guarantee that you won't struggle. It doesn't p...

  Epstein file, Epstein file, Epstein file... Everyone is talking about the Epstein file. But main chahta hoon ke aap ek baat samjhein  isse pehle bhi bohot martaba viral events aaye aur chale gaye, aur aapne aur maine usse kuch bhi nahi seekha. Agar Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ne aapke aur mere saamne ye haqeeqat rakhi hai, then we should learn something from this and avoid repeating these mistakes.  So here are 5 powerful lessons from the Epstein files —agar aap aur main wo seekh jayein, toh InshaAllah humari zindagi bohot behtar ho sakti hai. 1. Choose Your Friends Wisely Aapko aur mujhe dekhna hai ke hum kis kism ke logon ko apna dost banate hain. The Quran reminds us ke Qayamat ke din bohot saare aise log honge jo kahenge: "Kaash! Main is insaan ko apna dost na banata." Allah ke Nabi ﷺ farmate hain ke dost woh hai jisko dekh kar Allah yaad aa jaye , dost woh hai jisko dekh kar aapko Akhirat yaad aa jaye. Toh aapne aur maine dekhna hai: kya hum Abu Bakr رضي الله عنه ko ...

 Lughwi aur Shar’i Ma’ana Ramadan lafz Arabic ki jad “رَمَضَ” se nikla hai jiska matlab hai shiddat ki garmi ya jalana. Ulama-e-Kiraam kehte hain ke Ramadan ko yeh naam isliye diya gaya kyunki yeh mahina gunahon ko jalata hai agar banda ikhlaas aur tauba ke saath ise guzare. Yeh ek khoobsurat ishara hai ke jis tarah aag har cheez ko jala kar raakh kar deti hai, usi tarah Ramadan gunah ki alaish ko jala kar rooh ko paak kar deta hai. Shar’i i’tibar se, Ramadan Islami saal ka nawa mahina hai jismein subah sadiq se lekar maghrib tak roza rakhna har baaligh musalman par farz hai. Magar yeh sirf jismani mashaqat nahi yeh ek mukammal spiritual training program hai. Bhook, pyaas, aur jismani khwahishat se rukna sirf discipline nahi balki roohani taraqqi ka zariya hai. Allah Ta’ala Qur’an-e-Kareem mein irshad farmate hain: aey emaan walo ! tum per rozay farz kerdiye gaye hain , jiss tarah tum say pehlay logon per farz kiye gaye thay , takay tumharay andar taqwa peda ho  (Surah Al-Baqa...

Aaj ka daur ajeeb hai. Hum roz logon ke paas se guzarte hain, lift mein kharay hotay hain, masjid ke bahar milte hain, school, college, office   har jagah chehre hi chehre.  Lekin zyada tar chehre khamosh hotay hain. Mobile haath mein hota hai, nazar neeche hoti hai, aur saamne jo Musalman khara hota hai uske liye bas ek formal si muskurahat  salaam nahi. Phir hum kehte hain: “ Ummat mein mohabbat nahi rahi.” Sawal yeh hai: Kya humne mohabbat ka sabse pehla darwaza khula rakha hai? Us darwaze ka naam hai: Assalamualaikum. Assalamualaikum — Sirf Greeting Nahi  Hum roz kehte hain: Assalamualaikum , lekin aksar yeh soche baghair kehte hain ke hum asal mein keh kya rahe hain. Assalamualaikum ka matlab hai: “Tum par salaamati ho, tum aman mein raho, Allah tumhari hifazat kare.” Socho… jab tum kisi ko salaam karte ho, tum asal mein uske liye dua kar rahe hotay ho. Aur dua ke waqt kya kabhi yeh dekha jaata hai ke yeh chhota hai ya bada? gareeb hai ya ameer? ...

Zindagi mein aise jagah  jahan insaan ko apni willpower test hi nahi karni chahiye. Apna imtihaan lene ki koshish mat karo. Apne aap ko khud khatray mein mat daalo. Jab bhi yeh  cheez saamne aayein, foran ijtinab karo. Seedha kaho: “Bhai, main strong nahi hoon. Main kamzor hoon. Main yahan khud ko nahi aazma sakta. Yeh tasleem kar lena kamzori nahi, yeh samajhdari hai.  Na-Mahram Sabse pehla aur sabse zyada khatarnak imtihaan — Na-Mahram. Jab Na-Mahram se saamna ho, jab ta‘alluqaat ka silsila shuru ho, toh yeh keh kar apne aap ko dhoka mat do ke “Hum toh behen-bhai jaise hain. Na-Mahram ko behen banana solution nahi hai . Sabse zyada khatarnak “behen-bhai” wahi hotay hain jo asal mein Na-Mahram hotay hain, aur bas alfaaz mein keh dete hain: Hum behen bhai hain. Haqeeqat yeh hai — woh behen bhai nahi hotay. Khusoosan Cousins: Zyada Khatray Ki Jagah Yahan jawanon ko khaas tawajjo deni chahiye. Na-Mahram rishtedaar, cousins, jinse milna-julna bhi hota hai, aana-jaana bhi ho...